Signs of a Healthy Relationship

Healthy relationships look different for every couple, but they share some common signs.

Ten signs

1. You can talk openly without fear of being mocked or punished.
2. Disagreements are about the problem, not about attacking each other.
3. You respect each other's boundaries, time and friendships.
4. Trust is the default; checking up on each other is not.
5. Both people make decisions together.
6. You support each other's goals.
7. Apologies are sincere and followed by change.
8. You enjoy time together and time apart.
9. Responsibilities are shared fairly.
10. You feel like yourself in the relationship.

If something feels wrong

Controlling behaviour, threats or fear are serious warning signs. Talk to someone you trust or a local support service.